Gentle Sleep

Sleep Needs by Age

A healthy sleep pattern is about both quantity and quality. These are typical total sleep ranges, including naps.

11–14 hours
Toddlers
1–3 years
10–13 hours
Preschoolers
3–5 years
9–12 hours
School-age
5–12 years
8–10 hours
Teenagers
12–18 years

Signs of Healthy Sleep

Even more important than the number of hours are these patterns:

  • Predictable sleep and wake times most days
  • Settling to sleep within about 20–30 minutes
  • Sleeping through with minimal wakings
  • Waking up refreshed rather than exhausted or grumpy

When to Be Concerned

If your child shows these patterns, you are not dealing with "naughtiness" — you are looking at a sleep difficulty that deserves support.

  • Regularly still awake past midnight
  • Taking hours to fall asleep
  • Waking multiple times through the night
  • Very tired and irritable during the day